"As somebody who was in the league for 20 years, I understood that I also had a very good upbringing," Stover said. "I had those boundaries. I was also married and that helps. A lot of things in my life were good. As a league, we have a responsibility to help these kids. That's part of it for me as an ambassador. When you raise children, you can't tell them just once. It takes five, six, seven, eight, nine times for them to get it unless they touch a hot stove and then it only takes once.