Many people still cling to the myth that they'd be able to spot a pedophile: he's the one in the bushes or on the other side of town, in a different church or in raggedy clothes. No, sexual abusers can live in Homeland and dress elegantly. They can live down the hallway. Abusers can be "naturals" with kids and volunteer endless hours for children's activities. They can be highly educated or illiterate, teenagers or, yes, women. They look just like us.