While these traffickers may be hidden in the shadows of society, men who patronize their victims are our husbands, fathers, brothers and colleagues. They have graduate degrees, loving families and successful legitimate careers. They often love their wives but are bored in the bedroom. According to one "John," a former journalist and current media relations specialist, "I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for a different experience and to walk away afterward." This "John" is one of many men who refer to themselves as "hobbyists" or "mongers" in online erotic review forums. While many of these men may intend to transact with consenting prostitutes, they inadvertently receive services from victims of human trafficking. Ultimately, although they may not condone the forced, defrauded or coerced exploitation of a sex-trafficked victim, these men still fail to alert authorities for fear of self incrimination.