The response of sorrow is rightly placed. However, the victims of the Catholic Church do not need your prayers. Prayers are great, but when my mother, who has suffered ongoing physical and psychological damage from her experience, sees so many people speaking out against the actions of the bishops, it fills her with an affirming feeling. However, as time goes on, and other news stories take over, the support seems to wane. So she is left reliving the trauma of thinking nobody cares.