Good! This shouldn't be an argument against same-sex marriage, it should be an argument for it. Do a Google image search for "Neil Patrick Harris and his kids." You'll see pictures of him, his husband and their smiling children, who were carried by a surrogate and conceived through artificial insemination using donor eggs. Halloween costumes, beach vacations and sleepy heads resting on daddy's shoulder (and other daddy's shoulder). A loving family. Every kid in the world should get to know this kind of love, but they don't. According to the U.S. Children's Bureau, 400,000 U.S. kids live in foster care. Every year, my wife and I donate duffel bags for these kids so they don't have to lug their few belongings from home to home in trash bags. I bet those kids wouldn't mind a couple shoulders to rest their heads on.