I read with interest your article about Dundalk and the unusual crime that happened there ("Odd crime tales rise again in Dundalk," June 1). The focus of the article seemed to be on the perceptions people have about Dundalk. I found this to be very sad. As an elementary school guidance counselor, I work very hard to teach children to be non-judgmental and avoid elitist attitudes such as, "I live in a better house (neighborhood, community, etc.) than you." We call it character education.

Perhaps a better focus would be this: Don't laugh at or make fun of anyone. Be proud of where you live and work to make it even better. When bad things happen, rise above them. There are wonderful people everywhere. Never think it is OK to derive pleasure from another person's pain. Do not equate money and worldly possessions with success, as there are successful money makers who are glaring failures as human beings.

Children are our greatest natural resource. They need to be taught self-respect, respect for others, tolerance and many more good character traits. It is up to all people to set a good example. The media has an exceptionally important responsibility to avoid passing on perceptions that are negative.

As you might have guessed, I live and work in Dundalk. I attended Dundalk Elementary School, Dundalk Middle School and Dundalk High School. I have a master's degree in school counseling from Loyola University. Education has always been a great value in my family and my community. I consider growing up in Dundalk to be one of my greatest blessings.

Susan Clarke, Dundalk