I am also gay. It's part of who I am. I have a husband whom I love deeply. God is the third person of our marriage. Together, we worship him and pray to him. We serve Him each day and serve those who He asked sent before us who need our assistance also. We are His faithful servants who were married in His presence. We took our sacred vows before Him, our families, and our friends. The thunder did not scream, the church did not fall down, the sun shone brightly on an August Sunday afternoon, and God's blessings were given to us and our families and our friends that day.