The girl was an enthusiastic participant in this sexting, using cheery little emoticons to emphasize that she was ready to romp. "I just want you to be in charge," she wrote. "After all, I do like a man in charge" -- emphasizing that point with a little winking yellow balloon head. Now, consider that Mr. Diehl is a doughy, middle-aged man with thinning hair, a double chin and eyes that are a little too close together. Not exactly Brad Pitt or Justin Bieber or whichever type of man a 19-year-old female would find attractive. This is proof, once again, that power truly is an aphrodisiac.