Alexander C. “Alex” Bement, a naturally gifted athlete who excelled at lacrosse and enjoyed coaching middle- and high-school students in the sport, was found dead May 4 at his girlfriend’s Washington apartment. The former resident of Phoenix in Baltimore County was 27.
The cause of death, according to his parents, William Martin Bement and Elizabeth “Liz” Bement of Fells Point, was a drug overdose.
“He was fiercely compassionate, competitive, loving and loyal,” his mother, wrote in an emailed biographical profile of her son.
“He was an amazing son, brother and friend, with a great joy for living, whose life ended way to soon due to the struggle of addiction,” Ms. Bement wrote. “We are sharing this in the hopes that this will encourage at least one person who is struggling to reach out for help.”
“We don’t look at it as an addiction; it is a disease,” his father said, in a telephone interview.
He blossomed as a lacrosse player and when he was a sophomore at Loyola High School, he was a starting varsity defenseman. His senior year, he was team captain and was named Defensive Player of the Year, and helped guide the team to Maryland Interscholastic Athletic Association championships in 2007 and 2008.
In 2009, Mr. Bement was First-team All-MIAA, All Towson Times, and a finalist for the C. Markland Kelly Award.
“He was just an incredible athlete and for my money, the best defenseman I had ever seen play,” Mr. Stose said.
After graduating from Loyola in 2009, Mr. Bement began his college studies at the University of Pennsylvania, where he played on its Division 1 lacrosse team.
As a freshman in 2010, he appeared in 10 games, and in 2011 “saw action against Villanova (I3/12), Princeton (3/19 and Cornell (3/26),” according to University of Pennsylvania Athletics.
After withdrawing from Penn in 2011, he moved to Aspen, Colo., where he was defensive coach for Aspen High School’s lacrosse team and helped take them to the championship. He also worked in telemarketing and was assistant manager for the Aspen Skiing Co.
While living in Aspen, he learned Telemark skiing, a technique in which the skier assumes a squatting posture while allowing him to make turns at controlled speed.
From 2015 to 2016, he attended the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minn., where he played on its lacrosse team and helped take it to the 2016 championship game.
Mr. Bement took home many awards that season including the Men’s Collegiate Lacrosse Association Division 2 First Team All American and the Upper Midwest Lacrosse Conference Division 2 Defensive Player of the Year.
While living in Minnesota, Mr. Bement was assistant head varsity lacrosse coach from 2014 to 2016 for Washburn High School in Minneapolis, and during that same time period, was program director of the Homegrown Lacrosse Club of Greater Minneapolis-St. Paul, where he also coached middle school and high school students.
Nikolas A. Colpitts became close friends with Mr. Bement when the two worked together at Homegrown Lacrosse and Mr. Colpitts coached lacrosse at St. Thomas.
“When Alex was thinking of going back to school, I was coaching at St. Thomas at the time and told him he should come to UST and play lacrosse,” Mr. Colpitts wrote in a Facebook posting. “Alex was an absolute stud and a wonderful teammate.”
In 2016, Mr. Bement returned to Baltimore, where he took a job in outside sales with Forbes Design Center and since 2018 had been a customer success manager with DiscoverOrg, an IT company, and had recently been promoted to customer development representative.
Dr. Rolando V. "Doc" Goco, a retired internist who maintained practices in South and Northeast Baltimore who earlier had survived the occupation of the Philippines, died April 28 of dementia at his Ticker, Ga., home. The former Laurel resident was 91.
“From the moment I met Alex, he was full of life and light, and determined to live life to the fullest,” said Ms. Tsai, who is an account manager for ServiceNow in Washington, a software company.
“It was so easy to fall in love with Alex even though I fought that for a while,” she said. “Everything he did, he did with an intensity that I miss so much.”
“He was one of the most passionate people I have ever come across in everything he did,” Mr. Colpitts wrote. “His passion for lacrosse, coaching, music and film was something I admired so much about him.
“He was just as passionate about his friendships and always willing to help and be there to comfort you whenever you needed it,” he wrote. “Even though he would never admit it, he was one of the smartest people I knew. “
A memorial service will be held at 3 p.m. Saturday at Old St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, North Charles and Saratoga streets.