Are you a slut?
Or are you a woman who loves sex, has a high libido, and has consensual sex with a lot of willing and grateful partners? Those are all traits for which culture wouldn't conspire to leave you feeling conflicted or compelled to slap a pejorative label on yourself-if you were a dude, gay or straight.
Don't buy into the sexist double standards, GC. So long as your sex life isn't negatively impacting your relationship(s), your health, your friendships, your family life, your classwork, or your career, GC, you aren't doing anything wrong. Don't let shitty, sexist people make you feel like you have to slap a shitty, sexist label on yourself for the crime of enjoying sex while female.
Have fun out there, GC, be thoughtful, be safe, be considerate of the feelings of others and of your own. And remember: What works for you now-slutting around in the sex-positive/reclaiming-the-shit-out-of-that-word sense, i.e., a lot of healthy and rewarding sex, a lot of happy sex partners-may not work for you always. Don't look back on this part of your life with shame or regret if or when you elect to downsize your sex life, i.e., less sex, fewer sex partners/a lot of sex, one sex partner. Do what's right for you, eliminate the risks that can be eliminated, mitigate the risks that can't be eliminated, and don't worry about what other people think.
I am a 24-year-old gay man living in a major urban center. My question has to do with etiquette. One of my very good friends-I'll call him Jerry-helped me out of a huge jam last summer. I received notice that I had to vacate my apartment while I was overseas, and Jerry volunteered to pack up my stuff and put it into storage. Needless to say, I am extremely grateful, as Jerry has saved me a huge amount of money and hassle. Recently, though, I was housesitting for Jerry while he was on vacation, and I found some intimate items of mine-a cock ring and a bottle of lube-that I thought had been lost in the move. In the interest of full disclosure, me and Jerry have fooled around before, but I find the fact that he took these items very strange, and I don't really know what to do. Do I confront Jerry about the items, or just leave them as "payment" for helping me move? Or should I just take them back without saying anything and let him figure it out?