Just as Oz’s Cowardly Lion needed a medal, guys need recognition for their valor. In 1978, I was attacked by a Bible-believing 17-year-old. With no escape (I was up against a “Stone Wall,” literally) I pulled a small sharp object to fend him off. He attacked me, barehanded, anyway, and I hope he wears his scar with deserved pride, as I wear mine. So there’s pain and bloodshed on the road to peace. Also, of course, man-boy love. Most men are obliged to love one or more boys; if fathers were protective of their sons, wars would be few and ended by compromises at first opportunity.