HOW DO YOU DEFINE CHEATING?
RYAN (above): Anything before "I love you" doesn't count
LINDA: Treachery and deceit, more about where the heart is than where the genitals are
KIMANI: Being with another physically when you emotionally belong to someone else
SHAWN: Intimacy with anyone other than your "person"
HAVE YOU EVER CHEATED ON SOMEONE?
RYAN: Never. That's worse than bad break-up sex
LINDA (above): Never. I am honest to a fault
KIMANI: I've cheated on someone only after I was cheated on by them. It was a vicious cycle
SHAWN: Absolutely. I get bored easy
HAVE YOU BEEN BEEN CHEATED ON?
RYAN: Yep
LINDA: I don't believe so, but I tend to believe everyone is as transparent as me
KIMANI (above): I have been cheated on three times. You never get used to it
SHAWN: Of course, everyone has
CAN RELATIONSHIPS SURVIVE INFIDELITY?
RYAN: "Trust is like a mirror. You can fix it if it's broke, but you can still see the crack in the reflection"
LINDA: Sure. But one partner willfully deceiving the other is most likely a sign that it's time to part ways
KIMANI: Yes, but the trust between the two of you is never the same
SHAWN (above): Depends on the people, I guess. I wouldn't be able to do it.
WHAT'S WORSE THAN CHEATING?
RYAN: Ebola virus
LINDA: Being stabbed in the throat would probably be unpleasant
KIMANI: A friend said, "Finding out you were cheated on by finding out you have an STD"
SHAWN: Murder?
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