The state employee who was forced to resign this week for spreading rumors about Martin O'Malley's personal life has sent an e-mail apologizing to the mayor and his family for actions he admitted were "reckless" and "mean-spirited."
Addressed to "Mister Mayor," the e-mail was sent Wednesday but reached O'Malley's office only yesterday, after city staffers discovered it among hundreds of e-mail messages about potholes and other run-of-the-mill constituent concerns.
"I am writing today to apologize to you, your wife, and your children for my thoughtless and indefensible promulgation of rumors concerning your family life," Joseph F. Steffen Jr. wrote. "I have no excuse for joining web (or other) conversations that are reckless, mean-spirited, and personally damaging in nature."
Gov. Robert L. Ehrlich Jr. said he fired Steffen on Tuesday after his longtime campaign and congressional aide admitted that he posted rumors on a conservative Web site alleging the mayor had extramarital affairs.
O'Malley, a Democrat who says he will try to unseat the Republican governor next year, said in an emotional appearance with his wife Wednesday that the rumors are untrue and that he has never been unfaithful to her. He said the stories are part of a political smear campaign.
"We have received an e-mail through the baltimorecity.gov Web site allegedly from Steffen," said Raquel Guillory, O'Malley's spokeswoman. "The mayor has no further comment."
Reached at his home yesterday, Steffen confirmed that he sent the message but declined to comment further. "That is definitely my letter," he said.
The message surfaced yesterday as Democratic lawmakers called the rumors an attack by the Ehrlich administration, with some still pressing for an independent investigation.
Both Ehrlich and O'Malley were silent about the matter - declining to comment during public appearances - and the governor's legal counsel said he had begun what promises to be an extensive investigation.
"I'm really not focused or dwelling on that," O'Malley said in . "I'm back on the people's business now."
At about the same time, Ehrlich appeared in the governor's mansion for a tsunami relief event and left without taking questions.
Steffen's message to the mayor was sent at 3:34 p.m. Wednesday under the subject heading: "My sincerest apologies." Its tone was far more contrite than that of postings he made the night before.
"Hell, this might even burnish my reputation," read one message posted Tuesday night.
"I know the Governor, who I am sure is rightfully greatly disappointed in me, asked earlier today that I formally apologize to you," Steffen's message to the mayor said.
"However, please be advised the Governor's request is not the only reason I am apologizing. As a father, myself, I can only imagine what it must be like to be the subject of family-altering rumors, and the effect said rumors can have on spouses and children.
"I am truly sorry, ashamed, and remorseful and I ask that you and your family please find it in your hearts to forgive me."
Shareese DeLeaver, spokeswoman for Ehrlich, said the letter "speaks for itself," but noted the governor had publicly called on Steffen to apologize.
Deborah Martinez, a spokeswoman for the Maryland Republican Party, said she was glad to hear of the apology.
But Josh White, executive director of the Maryland Democratic Party, called the message "lame and immature" because it was in the form of an e-mail instead of a more formal, conventional letter.
White repeated calls for Ehrlich to apologize. "The governor won't take responsibility for his longtime political hatchet man's dirty work," White said.
Ehrlich has said it would be inappropriate for him to apologize because he had nothing to do with the postings.
Henry Fawell, an Ehrlich spokesman, said the governor's legal counsel was moving forward with an investigation "to determine what happened, when it happened and whether it happened on state time and with state resources."
Ehrlich's legal counsel, Jervis S. Finney, would not say when documents and e-mails Steffen sent from state computers would be made public, noting the law gives agencies 30 days.
Yesterday, some Democrats said an independent probe is necessary. Sen. Brian E. Frosh, a Montgomery County Democrat and chairman of the Judicial Proceedings Committee, said he wants a committee with subpoena powers to investigate Steffen's e-mail postings and his role as a state employee.
Steffen has held several positions in the Ehrlich administration; critics say his role was to identify Democrats in state agencies and have them fired.
But his most recent boss, Maryland Insurance Commissioner Alfred W. Redmer Jr., said Steffen had no hand in personnel decisions.
Senate President Thomas V. Mike Miller said he is wary that a separate legislative probe could become an expensive Whitewater-type investigation that could ruin lives.
In the House, Del. Peter Franchot, a Montgomery County Democrat and frequent Ehrlich critic, said he was drafting a bill to create a commission to "investigate the public integrity of the governor's office and state agencies."
House Speaker Michael E. Busch said he would support a joint House and Senate investigation. "I think the House should use all of the resources that it has to make sure that state employees are not in any way being discouraged from their jobs because of political affiliations and that there isn't a system of removal of state employees by people like Mr. Steffen and others who are sent in as troubleshooters," Busch said.
But state GOP Chairman John Kane said, "I think this is just a way to be able to deflect from Mayor O'Malley's failures in the city. The governor has 50,000 employees. He found that one of them was doing something that's against any act of decency and the employee was terminated in the same day. Where's the investigation required?"
Sun staff writers David Nitkin, Andrew A. Green and Lynn Anderson contributed to this article.