A list of the best personal development gurus of all time would have to include Dale Carnegie, Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins and Bruce Lee. That last one is not a typo. Bruce Lee is known for creating Jeet Kune Do and his many martial arts films from the 1970s, but if you study his philosophy, he was a deep thinker and knew what was required to become successful. Let's look at a few of his quotes to see how they can help you live a better, fuller, richer life.
Achieve your biggest goals
If you talk to any extreme endurance athlete, they will tell you emphatically that the key to success or failure lies in their mind, not in their bodies. Their bodies will succumb to the pain if and only if their minds allow it to. They will condition their minds as much as their bodies because they know that if they allow for a single thought of doubt or weakness, then the game is over. In what areas of your life do you feel stuck? What can you do right now that will help you push forward?
Secret to getting anything you want in life
"If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you'll never get it done."
The most successful people are often not the smartest, because when you are "smart," you of course need to calculate, analyze and ponder before tackling a new goal or project. Those of us who aren't Mensa members don't feel compelled to conduct such analysis so we just get started. Bruce's principle is more true today than when he said it. We have access to so much more information than ever before, and we now need turn-by-turn navigation for everything in our life or we feel naked. We couldn't possibly just start, could we?
"To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities."
We are experiencing a deficit of personal responsibility. There will always be 1,000 reasons why you can't do something, why it's not your fault and why you should blame others for your situation. That's easy. Three-year-old children have already mastered this. The greatest gift you can give yourself is to fully accept responsibility for every area of your life. Unhappy in your relationship? You can continue to blame your partner, but 20 years will pass and you'll still be unhappy and you'll still be blaming her. Finances in shambles? You can blame politicians, the economy and Wall Street bankers, but doing so will never help you improve your money situation. That's the funny thing about blame and responsibility. Who to blame is a whole lot less important than what will be done to resolve the problem -- and that requires you taking full responsibility.
How to invest your time and energy for maximum success
"The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus."
Think about the most successful people you know personally. Is there anything special about them? Probably not. What makes them unique is that they invested and dedicated time, energy and focus into a particular area. Find your niche and specialize. Become the best in the world in that area. You can be average at 99 percent of your job, but if you excel at the right 1 percent, then you will be a superstar and will never have to worry about job security.
"I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times."
Invest your time and energy into a narrow niche. Don't be all things to all people -- that is a prescription for mediocrity. What's the one area you can master? This is where you should start your 10,000 "kicks."
Bruce Lee: the martial artist, actor and now personal growth master. His philosophy is timeless as is his approach to creating a better life. For him, there was only one direction -- forward. "Be happy, but never satisfied." Well said, Bruce.
(Robert Pagliarini is a CBS MoneyWatch columnist and the author of "The Other 8 Hours: Maximize Your Free Time to Create New Wealth & Purpose" and the national best-seller "The Six Day Financial Makeover." Visit YourOther8Hours.com.)
Bruce Lee: Personal growth guru?
« Previous Story More Topic pages Next Story »
We've upgraded our reader commenting system. Learn more about the new features.
The Baltimore Sun encourages civil dialogue related to our stories; you must register and log-in to our site in order to participate. We reserve the right to remove any user and to delete comments that violate our Terms of Service. By commenting, you agree to these terms. Please flag inappropriate comments.