Dear Amy: My husband recently confessed to me that he was unfaithful four years ago.
We had a great life, or so I thought. I was completely devastated and contemplated leaving him, but I was pregnant with our fifth child. Now I see him making changes to live an honest life.
I am trying to forgive him every day.
The problem is that he told his best friend about the affair at the time.
This friend, who is a pastor, stood up in our wedding and spent time with our family several times during the affair period.
He chose not to tell me nor did he "force" my husband to confess to me.
We are people of faith, where forgiveness is something to live...