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Might his health issues be affecting their sex life?
Might his health issues be affecting their sex life?

Q: I just left a marriage of eight years of obligatory, unwanted sex (that resulted in our third child). We slept together once a month for about seven of those years, and it had gotten to the point that I was so turned off by him that I had dismissed sex altogether. A few months after we split, I began dating a man to whom I am unbelievably attracted. We've been dating for about three months, and he has opened me up sexually in ways that I thought were not possible. I love sex now — something I have not been able to say for the past third of my life. The problem is that after the first go, which usually is over very quickly, he cannot maintain an erection, or in some cases...

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