Long before Isaiah 54:17 became a rallying cry during the Ravens' Super Bowl run and a fixture in Ray Lewis' speeches, an angry and withdrawn young boy heard the words and decided to put them over his bedroom door.
"No weapon formed against me shall prosper."
Yet to celebrate his 10th birthday and already burdened by a lifetime's worth of tragedy, Matt Elam felt that the whole world was against him when he displayed the verse to give him a daily reminder of what mattered.
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His half brother had been shot and killed four years before he was even born. His parents divorced when he was 5. Already acquainted with death and departure, Elam then had to deal with the murder of his older sister, Christina, who was at a local park when shots rang out.
Elam, just 8 years old, got the news from his neighbor and sprinted to the park to see his 12-year-old sister one final time.
"We were really close and when I lost her, I felt like everybody was against me," Elam said Friday. "I felt like there was nobody on my team. I blamed my older sister for a couple of years. I felt like it was her fault. I wouldn't open up to people, I would turn my back on people."
A little after 11:30 Thursday night, Elam got the call he had dreamed about. He had been selected by the Ravens with the 32nd and final pick of the first round of the NFL draft. After a standout career at the University of Florida, the hard-hitting safety was moving on to the Super Bowl champs.
He hung up the phone and pulled on a Ravens hat. Elam then looked around his mother's Riviera Beach, Fla., home to take in the scene. He planned on having a small draft party with his mother, Addie Elam-Lewis, other family members and a few friends, but there were people everywhere he looked.
After all the trials and tribulations, which later included the shooting death of his older brother, the death of his father and his older sister getting diagnosed with breast cancer, he had made it.
"I was more happy just to see my family happy and smiling," Elam said. "They've always had my back, they've always supported me, they've pushed me, they've challenged me. They've made me who I am today."
When announcing the selection of Elam late Thursday night, director of college scouting Joe Hortiz said that the 21-year-old plays like a Raven. Team officials use that expression often when describing a player who competes with an edge and loves to fly around the field chasing the ball and making punishing hits.
One of the newest Ravens has fit the profile for a long time, if you ask Jack Daniels, the head coach at William T. Dwyer High School in Palm Beach Gardens, Fla. It's a tradition in high school for players to walk across the field with their parents before their final home game as a senior, but Elam was denied that privilege when his mother was late to the game.
"He was so angry and he just stopped talking," Daniels recalled. "So on the first play, a kid ran a quick slant and he knocked the kid out and caused the fumble. It seems like when he puts the helmet on, he gets some kind of superpower."
Said Elam: "I use negativity that comes at me off the field. I play with a lot of passion, a lot of emotion, a lot of energy."
Loss of a sister
Growing up in an area north of West Palm Beach, Fla., where trouble and despair were easy to find, Elam was a quiet kid who loved spending time with his siblings. That included his older brother Abram, who would go on to a long career as an NFL defensive back.
Football and other sports provided him with an outlet for his unlimited energy. However, after learning of his sister's death in January 1999, he didn't want to do much of anything except brood and make life difficult for others who challenged him.
According to reports, Christina was in a car with two friends when a 20-year-old man whose younger sister had gotten into a fight earlier in the day came to the park looking for revenge. It's unclear if the man's sister had feuded with Christina or someone else. Either way, Christina was killed and the man who did it was sentenced to 30 years in prison.
"When I lost my sister, I was in a situation where I was letting small things antagonize me," Elam said. "I had a lot of negative energy. I feel like I had to stop letting things like that destroy me. It was not helping me. I was going down the wrong path."
Elam managed to avoid getting into serious trouble, but he certainly flirted with it and didn't shy away from a neighborhood scrap. He had difficulty trusting others and his mother even made sure he got anger-management treatment.