The memory of his mother and grandmother pushes Jai Miller to succeed
Orioles outfielder watched both die in a car accident when he was 13
A former Stanford football and basketball recruit, Jai Miller is trying to prove he can give the Orioles enough quality at-bats to make the team as a reserve outfielder. (Karl Merton Ferron, Baltimore Sun / March 1, 2012)
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It's a routine he's been doing since he was a teenager, one of many ways he tries to honor his mother and grandmother, both of whom he watched die in a car accident when he was 13 years old.
But Miller's greatest tribute comes every day he's on a baseball field as he continues his nearly decade-long journey of trying to stick in the major leagues. He's spent his adulthood mostly toiling through the minors, and now at age 27 and in his fourth organization in as many years, Miller hopes this season finally holds his breakthrough opportunity.
"I know the type of standard my mom expected out of me and the level she held me to," Miller said. "There were no excuses with my mom. It was never about just getting by. That's what she taught me.
"She meant everything to me. She was the mom, the best friend, the coach in different sports. I think about her each and every day."
Lori Miller was a single mother dedicated to raising her son to be the best. And the best way to keep him out of trouble on the streets of Montgomery, Ala., was to keep him busy, so she immersed Jai in school and sports. Jai was a natural athlete, excelling in basketball, football and baseball.
A former basketball player at Tuskegee University, Lori was always thinking about opportunities for her son, and on Dec. 11, 1998, she picked him up from basketball practice with the hopes he could meet the basketball coach at Murray State, which was playing at nearby Alabama State.
They never made it there. As Miller remembers it, another car swerved into their lane, forcing them off the road. Lori Miller's Chevy Trailblazer careened off the interstate and flipped into a ditch. Neither Lori nor Jai's grandmother, Winona Brown, who was in the front passenger seat, were wearing seatbelts. They were both ejected from the car. Jai was in the back seat behind his mother, wearing a seatbelt.
"When it happened, the whole adage you hear about in the movies, everything slows down, that's pretty much how it happened," Jai Miller said. "It was super slow motion. You just feel so helpless, because you see what's going on and you can't do anything about it. While it was going on, I seriously thought it was a dream. It just didn't seem real."
Both his mother and grandmother died in the accident, but Jai was not injured.
"It's crazy because I just walked away from it," he said.
The next school year Jai moved to Selma, Ala., with his grandfather, Randall Miller, who became his legal guardian. He dedicated himself to his mother's memory. He was as a 4.0 student, he was the Alabama Gatorade Basketball Player of the Year as a senior, and he earned a scholarship to to play both football and basketball at Stanford.
"I lost my only daughter," said Randall Miller, a 74-year-old owner of a funeral home in Selma, "but I also gained a son. He literally became my son. That part of it was a blessing."
Miller had never played travel baseball or participated in any showcases, but he drew the attention of major league scouts in an Alabama All-Star game, and the Marlins made him their fourth-round pick in 2003.
"I think his mother always wanted Jai to become a professional athlete," Randall Miller said. "He was all set to go to Stanford, but he had to opportunity to play professional baseball, and I think he thought that's what his mother would have wanted."
The minor-leagues were a struggle. Miller was a gifted athlete, but his baseball inexperience showed. He never hit higher than .233 in his first four pro seasons.
"I know years ago, when I was struggling and trying to figure a few things out, it was definitely a trying time," Miller said. "It was the first time I struggled in any sport. It really tested my resolve and I just didn't want it to beat me."
Orioles infielder Robert Andino came through the Marlins farm system with Miller. The two were minor-league spring training roommates and played together in low-A ball in Greensboro.
"He was raw athlete then," Andino said. "He's still a little raw now, but once he figures it all out, watch out."