Calling from the car late Friday afternoon on her way to Albany, the mom said this weekend is going to be crazy. Ten minutes earlier, her daughter used the same word.
"It's crazy at my house right about now," Carly Fabbri said.
"And that," Tricia Fabbri said, laughing, "is why our family got into this."
On Sunday at TD Bank Sports Center, Tricia's Quinnipiac women's basketball team, riding a 21-game winning streak, can gain its first NCAA Tournament berth with a victory over St. Francis [Pa.] in the NEC title game.
"We've built off last year's 22 wins," Tricia said. "We've got 29 and to get to 30 would be so special. We're where we've got to win the championship. We're 40 minutes from what we want and I think the program will take a big step forward."
But first, on Friday, the mom had to go recruit in Albany. Then, on Saturday, she will gather with the Fabbri and Sacca clans to travel to Mohegan Sun Arena to cheer on Carly and Lauralton Hall against Mercy in the state Class LL championship. Fabbri even adjusted Quinnipiac's practice schedule.
"So we'll be able to get the entire parenting experience with my daughter playing for her first state title," Tricia said. "Lauralton Hall has played so well. And to get together with the parents, have a fun pregame and enjoy watching the game, we're really excited."
"My mom, my dad, both sets of grandparents, aunts, uncles are coming, and then we'll all go to Quinnipiac Sunday," said Carly, a 5-6 junior guard. "It's going to be quite the weekend."
If you think this is a lot for one family to handle on one weekend, you're right. If you think you're dealing with the inexperienced, guess again.
"Sports," Tricia said, "is the family business."
"We couldn't even stay at the hotel that night," Tricia said. "I had to go home with my parents, since two of my brothers were playing in the state [basketball] semifinals in New Jersey. I was at their game the next night."
You may have heard of one of Tricia's brother. Tony Sacca, 13 months younger than Tricia, was one of the leading passers in Penn State history. He played briefly in the NFL for the Cardinals. Their younger brothers, John and Ralph, also were accomplished athletes. The family is legend at Delran High in South Jersey.
"My dad [Paul Fabbri] jokes that I got all my athletic ability from mom's side," Carly said. "But he was a good athlete; he played hockey at Fairfield."
Adding to the hectic nature of the weekend, Paul is gearing up pitchers and catchers for his first year as Ridgefield baseball coach. Fabbri was coach at Notre Dame-Fairfield for 14 years, leading the Lancers to state titles in 2004 and 2009. The field there is named after his dad. Paul also had been girls hockey coach for 11 years at Ridgefield, where he teaches. Paul's and Tricia's son, A.J., plays football and basketball at Notre Dame-West Haven. And if you're thinking that sports genes are oozing through this story, well, we've only started.
Flowing through all this, too, is the relationship with the DeSantis family. Michelle, Lauralton Hall's accomplished senior guard, has played basketball with Carly since they were little. H-O-R-S-E, one-on-one, you name it. Michelle's dad, Joe DeSantis, a terrific player at Fairfield, is the former men's coach at Quinnipiac.
"Carly and Michelle played with each other and against each other in camps," Tricia said. "They played AAU and now in high school on this stage together. I'm so excited for them. Two coaches' kids, it's a feel-good story."
Carly started playing at her mom's camp when she was 3. She always loved to be around her mom's practices, the games, in the locker room. For a long time, she was the Quinnipiac water girl, or as Tricia calls says, "my hydration specialist."
"I loved being around the team," Carly said. "I couldn't get enough of it. Road trips, that was my favorite part. The girls welcomed me in the back of the bus. That was the coolest thing. I idolized them. My mom introduced me to the game and I've grown up with her forging this bond over basketball."
Said Tricia: "I told Carly the other day, the saddest thing is I miss is walking down after the first half and her always there to hand me a cup of water."