By Frederick N. Rasmussen, The Baltimore Sun
3:39 PM EDT, April 11, 2014
Eugenie Anne "Jane" Connall, a longtime Howard County psychologist who was also an animal lover, died April 5 of breast cancer at her Columbia home. She was 58.
"She was just incredible and very inspirational. Her death is a big loss for our community because she helped so many people and touched so many lives," said Kathleen H. Wesson, who is in sales for a construction materials company.
"She was incredibly dynamic and just very bright. She was really fantastic at what she did," said Ms. Wesson, who lives in Ellicott City. "And she was awfully good when it came to working with adolescent teenagers."
The former Eugenie Anne "Jane" Case was born in New York City and raised in Darien, Conn. She attended Darien High School for three years, graduating in 1972.
During her high school years, she also studied classical piano at the Manis School of Music in New York City.
Dr. Connall attended Manhattanville College and Wheaton College, where she received a bachelor's degree in 1976 in psychology.
She earned a master's degree in counseling in 1979 from George Washington University, and was a summa cum laude graduate of Southern California University, from which she earned her doctorate in psychology in 2004.
For more than 20 years, Dr. Connall maintained her practice in Columbia's Twin Knolls neighborhood.
"I was going through a divorce at the time, and I had two young children, and I was concerned about how they might be affected by what was going on, so the three of us went for counseling," recalled Ms. Wesson.
"They fell in love with her and she really helped me and my kids."
"I sent a lot of patients to her for counseling. She was an incredible counselor who saved a lot of marriages and made people believe in themselves," said Dr. Vhanna Kalikhman, a Columbia internist. "She was always helpful and ready to put her hands under everybody."
Lisa M. Passalacqua, a Howard County restaurateur, has been a close friend of Dr. Connall's for 21 years.
"Personally, she was the most generous and giving person I've ever met in my life. I guess I've recommended her to 60 different people through the years," said Ms. Passalacqua, who lives in Columbia.
"She helped people with clothes, groceries, took them to dinner and sent them cards. I remember taking her to chemo and she kept saying she needed to send her Valentine's Day cards," said Ms. Passalacqua.
"She was also great at helping people with marriage and infidelity issues," she said.
She said that her friend loved everything she could learn about Hollywood stars, liked driving BMWs, and enjoyed dressing in a "quirky manner."
"After being diagnosed with breast cancer, she always wore pink," said Ms. Passalacqua.
"Even when she was ill, she was still seeing patients and trying to help. She even did Skype interviews. It was the one of the few things that made her feel better. It gave her life purpose," said Dr. Kalikhman, who lives in Ellicott City.
Dr. Connall, a dog lover who had been active with the Humane Society of Howard County, "brought her two dogs to her office and allowed them to sit in her patients' laps if they so desired," said Ms. Passalacqua.
"Jane was a remarkable, remarkable woman and whenever she left, wherever she was, people remembered her," she said.
Dr. Connall had been president of the Mental Health Association of Howard County and was a Red Cross crisis volunteer.
"She was also a strong advocate for adoption and adoption causes," said her husband of 36 years, Desmond D. Connall Jr., a Washington attorney.
Mr. Connall recalled meeting his future wife when she came down from Manhattanville College to attend a dance at Princeton University, where he was then an undergraduate.
"She was just a delightful and colorful person," he said.
A world traveler, Dr. Connall especially enjoyed going to the beach.
"Her favorite beach was Dewey Beach, Delaware," her husband said.
Dr. Connall was a communicant of St. John the Evangelist Roman Catholic Church in Columbia.
A Mass of Christian burial will be offered at 10 a.m. Saturday at the Wilde Lake Interfaith Center, 10431 Twin Rivers Road, Columbia.
In addition to her husband, Dr. Connall is survived by two daughters, Kristin Connall of Washington and Caitlin Connall of Columbia; her father, Thomas Case of Columbia; and a brother, Dr. Christopher Case of London.
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