Nicholas Walters never served in the military, but he was indelibly shaped by the stories he heard from his father, Sanford Walters, a Towson resident who served in Vietnam in 1969 and 1970 as a U.S. Army lieutenant.
"He's someone who has always been committed to the veterans," Nicholas said of his dad. "It doesn't matter how old I get, he's someone I'm always going to look up to and respect his opinion and experience."
It troubled Nicholas to hear about the treatment his father got when he returned home and re-entered civilian life during those tumultuous times in the early 1970s.
"As a returning Vietnam veteran, it was even a hindrance to get a job back then, because the war was so controversial," said Nicholas, 34, a graduate of the former Towson Catholic High School who now works in the auto finance industry.
Nicholas, however, also learned from his father about the healing power of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, in Washington, D.C.
"He knows how much the memorial means to me personally, to have a place where you can focus," said Sanford Walters, 66, an executive vice president at Kelly & Associates, in Hunt Valley.
"I went to (the U.S. Army's Officer Candidate School) in 1969, and we had our first reunion in Washington, D.C., five years ago," he said.
"The first time we went to 'The Wall,' it was hard, but it was also so moving," the elder Walters said. "You go in and look at the names of people you went through (service) with who didn't come back.
If Walters and his son have their way, veterans of the wars in the Middle East one day will have their own piece of hallowed ground in the nation's capital.
With his dad's encouragement, Nicholas Walters has launched a grassroots campaign to build a National Afghanistan and Iraq Veterans Memorial, in Washington. He's the project's unpaid executive director, while his father serves on the nonprofit's board of directors.
"I believe history nowadays is made much faster than it used to be," Nicholas Walters said. "We don't need to wait until all our veterans are dead to have a memorial for them. What we envision is a place where veterans and families of veterans can go that has some acknowledgment of the sacrifices that they made.
"I think a lot of the idea for this came when we were coming up on the 10th anniversary of 9/11," he said. "We've been involved in these wars in Afghanistan and Iraq for a sizable percent of people's lives, and we've lost lots of lives over there.
"This is a void I can fill," he said. "This is something I can do, and it feels right to do it."
Nicholas Walters said research on the project showed him that many of the nation's cherished memorials — from the Iwo Jima Memorial to Mount Rushmore — started through private initiatives, often by just a handful of individuals.
"It's not like you have to wait for the government to come in and do something like this," he said. "This is altogether obtainable. Sure, we're trying to do something grand, but it's something that can be done."
Like father, like son
"I've been active in the nonprofit world since I was 10 years old, and I was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes," Nicholas Walters said. "When I was in the hospital the first time, I remember the doctors telling me that the only thing keeping us from a cure for childhood diabetes was time and money.
"Well, I couldn't do anything about the time part of the equation, but I went to work on the money end. I went door-to-door," he said.
"I stood outside the supermarket raising money," he said, "and by the time I graduated high school I was fortunate enough to raise over $1 million for juvenile diabetes."