With each cute baby Crystal Neilson delivered, she found her body more unattractive.
Her breasts sagged a little more. The skin on her stomach stretched out like a deflated balloon. “There was stuff falling out all over the place,” said the 34-year-old real estate broker.
After four kids, Neilson had enough of camouflaging her flab and flaws with circulation-binding Spanx. In March, Neilson decided to say goodbye to her post-baby body. She had her breasts lifted and increased two cup sizes, her stomach smoothed and flattened with a tummy tuck and her love handles shaped and slimmed with liposuction.
She joined the ranks of women who turn to plastic surgery to try to reclaim their bodies after bearing children. Most get work on their abdominal areas and breasts.
“I look better than I did when I was 19,” Neilson said. “I have never looked this good in my whole life.”
Lifestyle changes, including fashions that are less forgiving and active mothers who are more aware of their appearance, have driven the growth in such procedures over the past decade, said Dr. Robert X. Murphy, president-elect of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons. The surgeries have also become more socially accepted, he said.
Breast augmentations have increased 35 percent in the past decade, breast lifts by 69 percent and tummy tucks by 70 percent, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons.
“In a social circle, if one person has done it, then somebody else may get a little more inquisitive and they might follow through with it, too,” Murphy said.
Women spend tens of thousands of dollars on the procedures, which the cosmetic surgery industry calls “mommy makeovers.”
While carrying a child can be a rewarding life experience, many say it wreaks havoc on their bodies. Their figures just don’t pop back into place like those of Hollywood stars.
“It’s like a bomb goes off in your midsection and there’s nothing you can do,” said Kate Blankenship, who also had plastic surgery after having children.
Genetics sometimes plays a role in which women’s bodies bounce back, said Dr. Larry H. Lickstein, a plastic surgeon at the Cosmetic Surgery Center of Maryland, where Blankenship and Neilson had their surgeries. For instance, some women have more elasticity in their skin than others.
But even those with the best genes will see some kind of change in their bodies. As the abdominals expand with the growth of the baby, the skin and muscles stretch out. Sometimes the muscles that run down the belly separate in the middle and protrude, Lickstein said. Breasts stretch out with the flow of milk, then look deflated when they go back to the previous smaller size.
Women often fruitlessly diet and exercise.
“You can’t exercise your loose skin away,” Lickstein said. “When you do cardio and aerobics, you’re burning calories, but you don’t get to pick where that fat comes off.”
Blankenship, 34, teaches a fitness boot camp class for moms. But when it came time to get her own post-baby body back into shape, she was stumped. When somebody asked if she was pregnant after seeing her tummy pooch, Blankenship thought an intervention was needed.
“I was able to nurse two kids, and afterward my breasts just looked traumatic,” said the Glen Arm mom of two. “I knew I would lose the weight. I was confident about that. But I still had loose skin and my abdominal muscles kind of sagged outward.”
Blankenship had a breast augmentation and modified tummy tuck and said she no longer has to hold her stomach in to get the flat abs she had before pregnancy. She is also comfortable in a bikini again.
“I was able to do the grunt work myself, and the surgery just polished it off,” Blankenship said.
Neilson said: “My husband told me not to expect anyone to make me look perfect, but I can truly say I think I look perfect.”